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Saturday, May 24, 2014 10:02 pm
Deserve listen, ♥
What is it like to be told that you deserve something? What is it like to think that you deserve something, or maybe something more than you already have?
In this age and time, everyone goes around saying 'I deserve this', 'I deserve better', and the list goes on. But do we really deserve the things we want, the things we have?
Desires are what drives us to strive to improve on our situation. Yet it is these very desires that destroy us, that tears us apart, that haunts us on a continuous basis. Is this what we were looking for in the beginning?
I know I always go 'I deserve better', but when I look back and ponder, I never knew that that better was. I just thought that I should be getting more than I should, despite all that I have.
I know it's not fair to say things like 'I deserve better' in a relationship, unless he's really a jerk. But sometimes, incompatibility just screws you over and there's no way that you can stop yourself from thinking that way.
Friends come and go, they betray you at any given point and pretend that things are fine. What did we do to deserve it? Maybe it's just in the blood, that people take one another for granted until they lose themselves.
Life just has it's way with us. And like it or not, thinking you deserve better might not be the best way forward because it can act as a hindrance to moving forward.
"If we continue to go around thinking we 'deserve' anything in life, we are going to look back at a life full of disappointments when we are old. I'm not saying you can't be disappointed at times when you feel you have earned something, but do not let it destroy you. Pick yourself up, deal with the situation, and move on." - Jenny Kelly
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